Video calling has become one of the most meaningful ways to stay connected with family and friends, especially when distance separates us.
For many seniors, however, the technology can seem intimidating at first. The good news is that video calling doesn't have to be complicated.
This comprehensive guide will walk you through everything you need to know about video calling—from choosing the right platform to troubleshooting common issues.
By the end, you'll be confidently connecting face-to-face with loved ones, no matter how far away they might be.
Video calling offers unique benefits that make it particularly valuable for older adults:
Reduces social isolation by providing face-to-face interaction even when physical visits aren't possible
Strengthens family bonds by allowing you to see grandchildren grow and participate in special moments
Improves mental health through regular social connection and emotional support
Enables virtual healthcare visits without the need to travel to a doctor's office
Creates opportunities to join virtual classes, events, and social groups
According to recent studies, seniors who regularly use video calling technology report feeling more connected to their families and experience less loneliness than those who rely solely on phone calls or text messages.
With so many options available, finding the right video calling platform for your needs is the first step. Here's a comparison of the most senior-friendly options:
Best for: Seniors who already use iPhones, iPads, or Mac computers
Pros:
Already installed on Apple devices
Simple, intuitive interface
Excellent video and audio quality
No account creation needed (uses your Apple ID)
Group calls support up to 32 people
Cons:
Only works on Apple devices
Cannot connect with people using Android or Windows
Best for: Group calls, virtual events, and classes
Pros:
Works on smartphones, tablets, and computers (all operating systems)
Free version allows calls up to 40 minutes
Can join meetings without creating an account
Screen sharing capabilities
Virtual backgrounds option
Cons:
Interface has more features, which might be overwhelming at first
Free version has time limits for group calls
Requires app download and installation
Best for: International calling and messaging
Pros:
Free international video calls
Simple, user-friendly interface
Works on both Apple and Android devices
Combines messaging and calling in one app
End-to-end encryption for privacy
Cons:
Requires smartphone and phone number
Both parties must have the app installed
Limited to 8 participants for group video calls
Best for: Cross-platform use and simplicity
Pros:
Works on any device with a web browser
Simple, clean interface
No time limits on free version
Can join calls via link without downloading anything
Automatic captioning available (great for hearing impairments)
Cons:
Requires Google account for hosting calls
Some features only available on computers
Best for: Seniors with limited tech experience
Pros:
Purpose-built tablet for seniors
Extremely simplified interface
Pre-configured and ready to use
Family members can manage contacts remotely
Built-in cellular connection (no WiFi needed)
Cons:
Subscription cost ($58-79/month)
Limited to contacts approved by family admin
Best for: Memory care residents or those who struggle with answering calls
Pros:
Digital frame that automatically answers video calls
Family members can call in without the senior needing to answer
Shows photos when not in use
Simple setup with minimal buttons
Can be managed remotely by family
Cons:
Requires WiFi connection
One-time purchase cost ($299+)
Before you start making video calls, ensure you have the right equipment:
Device: Smartphone, tablet, or computer with camera
Internet Connection: Stable WiFi or cellular data
App or Software: Appropriate for your chosen platform
Stand or Holder: Keeps your device steady and at eye level
External Speakers or Headphones: Improves audio quality and privacy
Lighting: Face a window or lamp to ensure you're clearly visible
Larger Screen: Consider a tablet or computer for easier viewing
Open the FaceTime app (pre-installed on your device)
Sign in with your Apple ID if prompted
Tap the "+" button in the top right corner
Enter the phone number or email of the person you want to call
Tap "Video" to start a video call
Wait for the other person to answer
Tip: Add family members to your Favorites list for quicker access.
Download the Zoom app from your device's app store
Open the app and tap "Sign Up" or "Sign In"
Create an account using your email address
To start a new call: Tap "New Meeting" and then "Start a Meeting"
To join someone else's call: Tap "Join" and enter the meeting ID they provided
Allow access to your camera and microphone when prompted
Tip: Practice joining a test meeting at zoom.us/test to get comfortable with the controls.
Download the Zoom app from your device's app store
Open the app and tap "Sign Up" or "Sign In"
Create an account using your email address
To start a new call: Tap "New Meeting" and then "Start a Meeting"
To join someone else's call: Tap "Join" and enter the meeting ID they provided
Allow access to your camera and microphone when prompted
Tip: WhatsApp Web lets you use WhatsApp on your computer for a larger screen experience.
On a computer: Go to meet.google.com in your web browser
On a mobile device: Download the Google Meet app
Sign in with your Google account
Click "New meeting" to start a call, or enter a meeting code to join one
Share the link with others so they can join your call
Allow access to your camera and microphone when prompted
Tip: Turn on captions by clicking the "CC" button during a call if you have trouble hearing.
Once you've set up your preferred platform, follow these steps for a successful first call:
Choose a quiet location with good lighting
Position your device at eye level (use books or a stand if needed)
Make sure you're connected to WiFi to avoid data charges
Do a quick appearance check using your camera's preview
Start with a test call to a tech-savvy family member who can help
Learn the basic controls:
Mute/unmute microphone
Turn camera on/off
End call button
How to adjust volume
Remember: It's normal to feel a bit awkward at first. With practice, video calling will become second nature.
Increase text size in your device settings
Use voice commands when available
Try larger devices like tablets or computers instead of phones
Adjust brightness and contrast for better visibility
Use headphones for clearer audio
Enable captions when available (especially good on Google Meet)
Position in a quiet room to reduce background noise
Consider a device with volume amplification
Use a device stand to avoid having to hold your device
Try voice commands to answer calls
Consider specialized devices like GrandPad with simplified interfaces
Use stylus pens if touching the screen is difficult
Even experienced users encounter technical issues occasionally. Here are solutions to the most common problems:
Possible causes and solutions:
Weak internet connection: Move closer to your WiFi router or restart it
Too many apps running: Close other apps on your device
Outdated app: Check for updates to your video calling app
Poor lighting: Face a window or turn on more lights
Background noise: Move to a quieter location or use headphones
Try these steps:
Check that your internet is working (try opening a website)
Restart the video calling app
Ensure you have the correct meeting ID or contact
Restart your device completely
Check if the other person is online and ready
Quick fixes:
Check if they're accidentally muted (look for microphone or camera icons with a line through them)
Ensure you gave the app permission to use your camera and microphone
Close and reopen the app
Check if another app is using your camera
Restart your device
Solutions:
Move closer to your WiFi router
Ask others in your household to pause streaming or downloads
Try using a cellular data connection instead of WiFi
Reduce video quality settings if available
Consider a WiFi extender if you're far from your router
Staying safe online is important for everyone. Follow these guidelines:
Only accept calls from people you know
Use passwords for meeting rooms when available
Be aware of what's visible in your background
Know how to end a call quickly if needed
Update your apps regularly for security improvements
Never share financial information during video calls
Be suspicious of unexpected calls claiming to be from companies or government agencies
Don't click links sent during calls from people you don't know
Set up a family password that only legitimate family members would know
Once you're comfortable with basic video calling, try these tips to make your experience even better:
Schedule regular calls to stay in touch with family
Consider lighting and background for a more pleasant visual experience
Use earbuds or headphones for clearer audio and privacy
Try group calls for family gatherings or celebrations
Share your screen to show photos or get help with computer issues
Virtual game nights with simple games like charades or trivia
Cooking together by propping up your device in the kitchen
Reading stories to grandchildren
Watching movies or shows together using screen sharing
Taking virtual tours of each other's gardens or home improvements
If you need more assistance with video calling:
Ask a family member for a practice session
Check your local senior center for technology classes
Visit your device manufacturer's support website
Look for tutorials on YouTube specific to your device
Consider a one-on-one tech support session with a professional
Video calling technology has created wonderful opportunities for seniors to maintain and strengthen connections with loved ones, regardless of physical distance. With the right platform, some basic equipment, and a little practice, you'll be video chatting with confidence in no time.
Remember that everyone was a beginner once. Be patient with yourself as you learn, and don't hesitate to ask for help when needed.
The joy of seeing your loved ones' faces and participating in important moments from afar makes the learning curve well worth the effort.
Start with a simple call today, and before you know it, video calling will become a natural and enriching part of your connection with family and friends.
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